stop chasing the wrong people, become secure in yourself & in your relationships

I’m Louisa Sophia josem, a relationship coach for single people. helping you break repeating relationship cycles and build secure, safe and regulated love. Because who you choose to settle down with, is one of the most important decisions you will ever make.

Using my signature Unlearn Framework, I help you identify attachment patterns, rewire self-abandonment, and embody secure energy in dating.

My clients go from obsessing over mixed signals and losing themselves in love to feeling calm, confident, and in control of their standards. lets unlearn.

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signature program

relationship rehab

Are you ready to feel secure, emotionally free and experience relationships in a completely different way?

3 montH program

For people who are exhausted from repeating the same painful relationship cycle and are ready to heal from the past

For you if…

  • You keep attracting emotionally unavailable people & need to heal from the past

  • you anxiously spiral, obsess, and think about someone who doesn’t reciprocate

  • you can’t get over that one person, you know they aren’t right for you but your emotions don’t get the memo

12 montH mentorship

FOR SELECT PEOPLE WHO ARE READY TO COMPLETELY TRANSFORM THE WAY THEY EXPERIENCE THEMSELVES, THEIR RELATIONSHIPS AND THEIR LIFE forever

For you if…

  • YOU’RE DONE WITH TEMPORARY FIXES AND WANT TO CREATE DEEP, LASTING CHANGE ACROSS EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE

  • YOU WANT TO COMPLETELY CHANGE THE WAY YOU LOVE, CHOOSE, COMMUNICATE, SET BOUNDARIES AND TRUST YOURSELF in relationships

  • YOU’RE READY TO OUTGROW OLD PATTERNS, IDENTITIES and THE VERSION OF YOU THAT KEEPS RETURNING TO THE SAME PAINFUL CYCLES

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the podcast

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the world of Unlearn with Louisa

A podcast for anyone who has ever wondered, why do I keep doing this? in love, dating, relationships or, quite frankly, life.

Louisa explores attachment, breakups, dating, self-development, personal growth and all the wonderfully messy human stuff that comes with trying to understand why we are the way we are.

Whether you’re in a relationship, freshly single, mid gut-wrenching breakup or simply trying to understand yourself a little better, you’ve found the place that feels like home to your soul.

start by booking a free clarity call